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You Have No Concept of Time - and it is Ruining Your Life
Humans have an unusual relationship with time. Bill Gates said we overestimate what we can do in one year, and underestimate what we can...

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Jan 31, 20237 min read


Understanding the Fatal Flaws in Your Brain
The human brain is a very powerful piece of hardware, but it is also dangerously flawed. To better understand the brain, we need to go...

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Jan 31, 20233 min read


What is Wrong with the Friend Zone?
For some, being put in the friend zone is a death sentence. The initial rejection is brutal. It goes to the core of their being. This...

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Jan 31, 20232 min read


The Art of Self Forgiveness
You need to work hard at forgiving all the stupid shit you have done. We all do stupid things. These self-condemning words jiggle around...

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Jan 31, 20232 min read


The Media is Not Your Friend
What do you think the media's top priority is? To inform you or to scare the living crap out of you? In theory, the media plays a very...

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Jan 31, 20235 min read


How to Complain
Inevitably someone is going to piss you off. A waiter will forget your food order, a taxi will cut you off in traffic. It could be a...

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Jan 31, 20233 min read


What is Your Attachment Style?
In 1985, Rocky Mountain News published a groundbreaking article on how people attach themselves to others in romantic relationships. It...

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Jan 31, 20233 min read


What is So Wrong with being NICE?
I am a nice guy. I am pleasant, positive and take a genuine interest in other people. I am not a dickhead who plays macho alpha male head...

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Jan 31, 20234 min read


Everything Your Know About Freedom is Wrong
For many, freedom is the absence of responsibilities and obligations- the chance to do whatever you want, to pursue a passive lifestyle...

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Jan 31, 202311 min read


Why It Took me 50 Years to Find Myself
It took Columbus approximately 4.5 months to discover America – and he had to sail through unpredictable and unchartered waters. It took...

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Jan 31, 20238 min read


What Road Rage has Taught me about Self Awareness
I lived in Mexico City for almost 20 years. It contains 25 million people. It is a city located 2500m above sea level, surrounded by two...

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Jan 31, 20233 min read


THREE Reasons Men Should Keep a Journal
I used to think that keeping a journal was only for teenage girls. They would lie on their beds, surrounded by posters of One Direction,...

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Jan 31, 20236 min read


FOUR Things I Learned About Retiring at 48
Retiring at 48 sounds cool and romantic. However, two years into my retirement, I am discovering some unexpected results. 1) Achieving...

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Jan 31, 20234 min read


Do You Want to Know What is Holding You Back?
Everybody wants to be more than they are. How else can you explain the growth in the self-help/improvement industry? Surely, if these...

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Jan 31, 20233 min read


Five Reasons to be Grateful
Humans have a negativity bias. Our brains are hardwired to fixate on the negative – bad news triggers a reaction that causes us to...

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Jan 31, 20233 min read


4 Reasons Men Need a Tribe
For 99% of human existence, we lived in communities. These were groups of twenty to thirty people who lived together, worked together,...

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Jan 31, 20233 min read


Your Childhood May have F*cked Up Your Life – How to Know
Few would deny the importance your parents played in your life. They molded you into who you are today. Sometimes the end product is...

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Jan 31, 20234 min read


Four Ways to Spot Emotional Immaturity
Being clueless and immature when you are 18 is perfectly ok, but if you are still this way at 35, people will not be as thrilled with...

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Jan 31, 20232 min read


FOUR Ways to Make Her Lust After You
Men’s sexual satisfaction peaks in their 20s. Why, then, are men in their 20s abstaining from sex? Ten years ago, the percentage of men...

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Jan 31, 20236 min read


FIVE Things You Need to Do if You Feel Stuck
Henry Thoreau said most people live lives of quiet desperation. We have every intention to move forward, progress, grow, take a jump, or...

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Jan 31, 20235 min read
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