Men often complain that women are deceptive and not totally honest. I don't think this is true. Women are very open when you first meet them—the problem is that we men focus exclusively on what women say and do not place much weight on what they do and what they do not say. In this quick blog, I want to tell you about a major red flag—probably one of the biggest red flags—that should send you running because there is no way you can maintain a relationship with this woman. It is a lack of accountability. It's when she does not take any personal responsibility.
These women are perpetual victims in their lives. They believe that life has happened to them—they are the product of the actions of other people. They are passengers in their own lives, and they feel entitled. Being the victim means they are entitled to reparations and redress. They deserve to be treated better—they deserve a great job, they deserve a great man. They are passive and do not need to work for anything. They are sitting and waiting for all the benefits they deserve to fall from the sky onto their laps.
So how do you know if someone is like that? It's relatively simple—there is one thing they will never do—they will never apologize. You will never hear them say "I am sorry" in a sincere way. They may use these words in that specific order, but they will do it in a condescending or facetious way. They will roll their eyes back into their heads. There will be no sincerity in their voice.
We know that all relationships take work from both sides. It's impossible to lift a refrigerator by yourself—it is much easier when there are two people. Being in a relationship with a woman who takes no personal accountability is like trying to lift a refrigerator by yourself—it cannot be done unless you are Mr. Olympia. These women will not change. You need to get out of Dodge City because this woman will make your life a misery.
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