If you want to have a successful relationship with a woman, you need to learn how to disappoint her. This might sound counterintuitive, but an essential ingredient of every relationship is the balance of power. For women to operate optimally, they need to function within their feminine energy, feeling protected and secure.
While this perspective might incite the ire of feminists, it's hard to argue against the inherent desire of many women to feel contained and secure. In a world fraught with potential dangers, women are more vulnerable to external threats. Consider the scenario where a woman arrives at work at 6 AM, pulling into an empty basement parking lot. She's likely looking behind every pillar, fully aware of the potential danger lurking in the shadows.
In a relationship, if you say yes to everything she wants, you inadvertently tell her that she is more powerful than you. This act of constant acquiescence is a form of surrendering your power and frame to her. If you're willing to surrender to an ally, how much more willing would you be to surrender to a hostile enemy? Always saying yes will make your woman feel uneasy and vulnerable.
Setting boundaries is crucial. By saying no once in a while, you establish limits that create a sense of safety for her. It's only through the setting of these boundaries and limits that she will feel truly secure. The moment she realizes she can do whatever she wants and you will always accede to it is the moment you lose frame. This loss of frame can lead to her losing desire for you, potentially resulting in her cheating on you or leaving.
In conclusion, learning to disappoint your partner in a controlled and respectful manner is not about creating conflict but about establishing a healthy balance of power. It's about ensuring that she feels protected and that you maintain your frame, thereby fostering a strong and enduring relationship.
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