As a man, I know this blog might ruffle some feathers, but here goes anyway. Men need women, and women need men. We are not equal; we are not the same. We are, in fact, wonderfully different. Men love to be needed. They thrive on serving, protecting, and providing. It's ingrained in our DNA, and we eagerly do these things for that special person in our lives. So why don't we do more of what we love to do?
The answer lies in fear. Women are terrified of being controlled, and this is understandable. Many women equate control with abuse. Ask any woman if she thinks it's her responsibility to make her man feel powerful, and she'll likely react as if you've asked her to donate a vital organ. She worries that a powerful man will dominate, subjugate, and control her. She believes her life will be worse off if her man feels powerful.
There's also a fear that the more confident her man feels, the more likely he is to cheat on her with someone more attractive. Women know how alluring confidence is and may feel insecure as their man moves more strongly into his masculine energy. So what happens? Women tend to break men down. They nag, complain, and manipulate, which drags a man down. It makes him feel powerless and unneeded. It diminishes his confidence and makes him more passive. It strips away his masculinity.
When a man isn’t operating in his masculine energy, there is no middle ground or purgatory—only hell. For men, that means operating in feminine energy, and there is nothing less attractive to a woman than a feminine man. This man becomes passive, weak, and ineffectual. He is of no use to anyone, least of all his romantic partner. Women are effectively turning men into people they despise and have no use for.
So ladies, be direct with your man. Tell him what you don’t like about his actions. Don’t be subtle and drop hints. Be straightforward and direct. Go easy on the nagging and complaining—maybe even drop him the odd compliment. Try to make him feel powerful. Trust me, he won’t use that against you. He will see you as the source of his strength and become even more loyal. Men are like dogs—we are loyal to those who are kind to us.
In conclusion, embrace the differences between men and women. Understand that a man’s need to feel powerful is not a threat but a fundamental part of his nature. By supporting and uplifting your man, you create a stronger, more devoted partner. After all, we are meant to complement each other, not compete.
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